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SH DECIEM CHAT: Choosing a Cleanser

Updated: Apr 17, 2020


๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹ Choosing a Cleanser ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹

I get a lot of requests to recommend products, and I'm usually unsure what to say. Of course there are products I love, companies I want to support and opinions to offer. But at the end of the day I'm never going to know if it's the right one for you (and neither will anyone else!)

I put this post together to help you analyse your own cleansers so you can narrow it down and decide what you want to trial.

๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹ There are a million cleansers!

It's so frustrating when your current cleanser is no longer cutting it and you don't know where to turn. For years I disregarded my cleanser as unimportant because it just gets washed off, right?

I've come round. Now I see cleansers as the foundation of my routine. If your cleanser isn't making you fall in love then you should keep looking. A great cleanser will clean off makeup and grime, remove dead skin and help keep your pores clear. It will prep your skin for the rest of your routine and allow actives to absorb. If you're not paying attention to this step you may be sabotaging the rest of your routine.

๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™ My top tips for finding your cleansing true love:

๐Ÿ›‘ Eliminate anything that foams. Gels, soaps or washes that foam contain surfactants that strip the skin. These surfactants are usually drying ingredients like sulphates (SLS). Even if sulphates are not present there are other detergents with similar properties to replace them. You can't have bubbles without detergents. It's important to find cleansers that are SLS free but just because it it's SLS-free doesn't mean it's good.

๐Ÿ›‘ Eliminate anything with scrubby bits. Physical exfoliants cause micro damage to the skin and rarely offer any long-term benefit.

๐Ÿ›‘ Also try to eliminate: - fragrance (parfum), as a general rule there's no need for it. But I'm less opposed to fragrance in cleansers because it's not staying on your skin. But it's certainly not helping to clean your skin either. - paraffin and mineral oils don't really offer your skin any value when it comes to cleansing. Unless your barrier is damaged - that's a special case that may require alternatives to your usual cleanser.

For personal reasons I also avoid: - palm oils, for environmental reasons related to deforestation. Unless it's a company that I know sources fair trade ingredients, like Lush. This can apply to other ingredients as well but palm is particularly bad. - major brands such as L'Oreal (owned by Nestle ๐Ÿคข) etc. Basically, I don't want to be paying for advertising, marketing and fancy packaging when there are great alternatives available.

๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹ Instead, look for:

โœ”๏ธ nourishing creams, milks, oils, balms or salves and some waters

โœ”๏ธ cleansers that leave your skin feeling lightly moisturised and NEVER squeaky clean. If it feels squeaky then you've probably stripped your natural oils and this will affect balance. Yes, even if you have oily skin.

โœ”๏ธ short ingredients lists

๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹ Trial and Error: testing your cleansers.

With a few exceptions I feel that a great cleanser should be able to fit in as your AM, first or second cleanse. Even if you don't plan on using it for both steps this is a great way to test if a cleanser suits you. Try it for a week as your only cleanser and you'll have a pretty good idea if your skin likes it (please patch test first, of course).

Exception - not all cleansers are perfect for removing make-up so this may not be feasible if you need to remove make-up first.

If you feel like you could apply your cleanser and then forget about it then that's a good sign (more on that later).

๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‹ Oil Cleansing is tricky but worth it!

Whenever cleansers come up there's always someone who invariably uses *only coconut* or whatever oil with a hot cloth method and it's the best thing ever. I tried it. It didn't work for me and it put me off oil cleansers for years. Until recently I wouldn't even have considered an oil cleanser but now I'm converted.

This is partly due to Hylamide High Efficiency Cleanser and partly due to pure hemp oil. Both of these get honorable mention in my book. I feel I could use only these two products forever.

Hylamide HEC has got to be one of the best bargain cleansers going. It may not seem cheap at first but it gets the job done with mere drops of the product. It's versatile (removes make-up), simple and effective. It takes a while to figure out your preferred method (wet or dry face, wet or dry fingers etc) and it's easy to overestimate the amount of product needed (3-5 drops for cleansing, 2-4 drops extra if removing make-up but you subtract these from the second cleanse) as well as the amount of water needed. Emulsifies (turns milky) beautifully when you get the mix just right. A clean facecloth dampened with warm water and it's easy as pie! LVCE works in basically the same way but assists your actives as well.

Pure hemp oil can be used in a very similar way but it won't emulsify. However this is the only thing I really use for an AM cleanse. Massage 5-6 drops into the skin. I like to let it sink in so I apply when I brush my teeth and leave it a while before I come back. Yes, sometimes this means that this is the sum total of my AM routine until I come back to wash my face at night - oops!


What I want to know from you:

๐Ÿ’™ Tell us what type of cleanser you use - milk, cream, oil, balm, etc.

๐Ÿ’™ WHY? What is it about that type of cleanser that works for you?

Thanks for your replies, questions, comments! ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

If you like what you've read don't forget to search for my other posts!


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